Hubby : So, what will the name be?
Me : Alexander, since our Confirmation Names start with an A?
Hubby : Sounds too classic...
Me : Okay, what about if it starts with "B"?
Hubby : Brian ? Sounds nice eh?
Me : Cool, but can we have his 2nd name from the name of a Saint?
Hubby : Suggestion?
Me : Valerian..
Hubby : Nice pick ! It sounds interconnecting.. :) Then, Brian Valerian it is..
The moral of the story is... Try to get your spouse involved in making any BIG and IMPORTANT decisions, i.e the name of our kid/kids. As the Malay proverb says, "Harimau meninggalkan belang, Manusia meninggalkan nama" :)